Before you go out on your first interracial date, you need to know exactly what you are getting yourself into. Preparation is very important and you shouldn’t wait till the last possible minute to get things together. You should always give yourself enough preparation time because first impressions count. An hour or so before your big date, there are a few things you can make sure that you do.
Women love a man who takes care of himself because it says a lot about your hygiene. Take a shower if you haven’t already, shave or trim your beard to ensure you are looking as fresh and clean as possible for your date. The goal is to look presentable and the way you show up sets the tone for the rest of the date.
If you show up looking rough or sloppy, the woman you are meeting will question how you go about your daily life. Don’t forget to top things off with a nice smelling cologne of course because you will be near your date and don’t want to be smelling of sweat.
To get you pumped up for your date, you can play some of your favorite songs. Going on a date with a woman you find very attractive can be nerve-wracking but some good music can get you mentally prepared. Have a playlist of songs that put you in a positive space in the hour or so leading up to meeting your date.
If you are a massive fan of Drake, pick the songs you listen to wisely because some of his songs are super emotional and can get you thinking about your exes which is not a good idea. Bruno Mars is the perfect artist to listen to a few hours before a date because his sound or music is uptown funk-inspired which will put you in a good mood.
Anything can happen on a date and it is important to be prepared for any possible scenario. Make sure you pack the essentials or the holy trinity for dating as many guys call it in a small bag because you never know when you might need them. The most important things you need to have in your little bag are condoms, gum, and chapstick. You might not need them by the time the date comes to a close but one thing you do need is money. You need to make sure you have enough money in the bank to pay for any expenses because it can get very embarrassing showing up for a date with little to no money to cover any expenses. You have to be a gentleman and pay for the date or at least split the cost with your date.
You want to know who you are meeting because these days, people are getting catfished, set up to get robbed, or worse. Over the years there have been so many cases where guys have put themselves in harm’s way simply because they didn’t do their research on the woman they are meeting.
There are males out there who set up accounts pretending to be women just so they can commit crimes. Your safety is very important and something that you must take very seriously because your physical wellbeing is at stake here. Do a quick search on Facebook and Google using an incognito browser to find out if your date is legit and they are who they say they are.
Before heading out for a date, it is not a good idea to have an intense workout session because you will be sweaty. No white girl wants a man to show up for a date covered in sweat. It is not a good way to make a good impression but you can do something to get your blood flowing like knocking out a few pull-ups or pushups. A light workout will ensure you arrive for your date in tip-top condition instead of looking tired which can make you come across as disinterested.
Going on an interracial date for the first time can be nerve-racking and some people might need something to calm their nerves. Others might choose to take a few shots of whiskey while others might opt for smoking some marijuana.
Both of these habits are not good for a person’s health and if you are going on a date, you need to make sure you are sober. You don’t want to show up high or drunk and start slurring words in front of your date. You will not make a good first impression this way but if you need something to help you loosen up, make sure it isn’t something strong.